He sent me a text at 8:30 the next night, just like he said he would. I played it cool. I acted like I had nothing to worry about even though I was freaking out inside. He said he was going to call me in 5 mins, I asked him to give me 20. I needed to turn the tables and not be the one on trial. He called me and the first thing he said was "I thought about it and I want to put this behind us and not bring it up again". I was so relieved. He did what the datedoctor said he should do. He fought for me. He chose me me over his friend. I continued to play it cool as if it was obvious that he was not going to give me up over something so silly. He said that he was really upset and doesn't usually get so upset. I said its probably because he really likes me :) He said that he did not want to go to the party anymore and that he would much rather see me. I said that I wished he had called earlier because I already had other plans. Even though I was dying to cancel my plans and run to be with him, I did not let myself. I need him to know that he can not call me at 9:00 on a Saturday night and I would just drop everything for him. So I went to my friends house and he went to his. He called me around midnight to say good night. He told me that he saw his friend at the party, told him that they had both been dating me and told him that he likes me and to please back off. What a man!!!! We made plans to see each other the following night. Once again at his place.... I am getting a bit annoyed that I am always the one running there. I am trying not to be too controlling or demanding because I am aware that I can get like that and I don't want to ruin this. I need to think of a better way to get my needs met and going to his house so that he can try to sleep with me is not my idea of my needs being met.
I am not really sure what to do with my blog at this time.... I am not going on anymore first dates at least for now, maybe forever! I don't want to disrespect his privacy anymore then I already have by secretly blogging but I also think it might be cool to watch a potential relationship evolve... Does anyone care to read about how me and him are working out??
Any Suggestions?!?!?!?
In the meantime, please pray for me cause I really like him and hope this works out (well...only if its meant to be)!
Just send us a note --and not too personal a note- as stages progress- like setting a date. This is your chance to grow together w/o an audience. We just want to hear about the conclusion-(wedding if it's meant to be)
ReplyDeleteso happy for you!!!
i'm so happy for you! this is very exciting indeed. i would love to hear how things progress but i think you could do so in a lesser degree of detail.
ReplyDeletemazel tov! :)
If you want him to come by your place instead maybe suggest a restaurant near you that you'd like to try? BTW, happy that you have found a good one...they are hard to come by:)
ReplyDeleteThis sounds so exciting! I definitely want you to keep the blog up and hear more.
ReplyDeleteAs far as the going to his house thing- be open and honest like you've been doing and suggest dates closer to your home.
I'd love to hear what you feel comfortable sharing and am so excited for you!
ReplyDeleteIt will be hard not to be a part of the details, but I agree, sharing in your blog may not be appropriate right now. Just give us a peek into the progress once in a while. I'm really into your story!
ReplyDeleteOf course we want to know how it progresses B! You don't have to give us the minor details, but an update now and then would be awesome! I'm so excited for you!
ReplyDeleteI love your blog. Although I've never commented before, its so fun to read. I'd love to hear how things move along...plus, at least for me, blogging to complete strangers is a good way for me to get my feelings/frustrations/joys out!
ReplyDeleteI am THRILLED for you. Please continue to update. And, please clarify, DID you meet this guy on Jdate? Is there hope for me?
ReplyDelete@JGIWC... I did!!! And there is!!!
ReplyDeleteHe had no picture and barely anything filled in on his profile, he IM'd me and I decided to take the chance! Met him without even seeing a picture of him :)You just never know!!!
P.S. so far he is wonderful!!!