tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post923862655794114782..comments2023-04-01T07:54:05.977-04:00Comments on 50jdates: Update 13- Week ThreeBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006662596353171795noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-80526212842670981612010-01-31T19:42:28.441-05:002010-01-31T19:42:28.441-05:00Er, can you try and relax and have fun with him? P...Er, can you try and relax and have fun with him? Putting pressure on people to be 'the one' has, in my experience, made me overlook bad qualities and try to make him fit what I want. You may do the opposite, but in any event it takes out out of the moment and makes it harder to enjoy your time and get to know them naturally and realistically. <br /><br />Gl, mostly just try and breath, ok?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-25501048705902580062010-01-31T14:56:54.031-05:002010-01-31T14:56:54.031-05:00@Anon... I am not sure when I will be ready to sle...@Anon... I am not sure when I will be ready to sleep with him but for sure not until he is officially my boyfriend. I want to make sure that we really like each other and that he wants to fully commit before I just give it up to him. <br /><br />@Anon... I do live with my parents but my mom was out of town and my dad goes to sleep at 10 and is less strict about stuff like that. I left him a note saying that we stayed up really late and he ended up falling asleep here cause he was too tired to drive home. My dad was cool with it. And if he wasn't, he didn't say anything to me about it :)<br /><br />@Alabaster.... I think that was what my therapist had in mind when he had me write out the list. Hopefully if I am aware of my behaviors, it will be harder for me to do them subconsciously or be in denial about them. I hope his theory will work :)<br />I didn't even notice the 50 symbolism, cool!!!Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07006662596353171795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-80822937640112187082010-01-31T13:56:21.664-05:002010-01-31T13:56:21.664-05:00Since you made a list and know yourself well (so i...Since you made a list and know yourself well (so it seems), maybe this is what will help you from committing the acts you fear. Hey, random, but you have 50 followers at the moment....50 j dates, 50 followers. symbolic, right? lol.AlabasterMuslimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16391496200607792492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-33987862222232705332010-01-31T08:52:05.932-05:002010-01-31T08:52:05.932-05:00I'm enjoying reading your blog...but I'm c...I'm enjoying reading your blog...but I'm confused. Do you live at home with your parents? From some entries, it seems as though you do (but I may be reading things incorrectly). I'm not asking this in a judgmental way, just in a curious way--ie how do sleepovers at your house go over when your parents are there?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-6587564428610989072010-01-31T06:51:52.139-05:002010-01-31T06:51:52.139-05:00When do you think you'll feel ready to sleep w...When do you think you'll feel ready to sleep with him? I wouldn't be able to hold out on a sleepover...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com