tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post7492922661751897322..comments2023-04-01T07:54:05.977-04:00Comments on 50jdates: Update 22Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006662596353171795noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-59645669330393070822010-04-21T14:37:09.701-04:002010-04-21T14:37:09.701-04:00Of course I have, once for 4 years. That's a ...Of course I have, once for 4 years. That's a silly assumption to make. We clearly just have different views of relationships and sex.DoGooderLawyernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-59300588294454604502010-04-21T12:04:41.600-04:002010-04-21T12:04:41.600-04:00Don't listen to DoGoodLawyer, he obviously has...Don't listen to DoGoodLawyer, he obviously hasn't been in a committed relationship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-29896882861335361422010-04-20T16:24:07.710-04:002010-04-20T16:24:07.710-04:00No, I'm with second anonymous. Go out and hav...No, I'm with second anonymous. Go out and have some sex with people you're not necessarily going to partner with. If you use protection, it's not dangerous, it's definitely not pathetic, and all of us have voids, and fill them with different things. Sex is a good thing, and makes you feel good and releases lots of good hormones within you. No reason it has to only be in committed relationships.DoGooderLawyernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-60562904635691874442010-04-19T12:32:20.840-04:002010-04-19T12:32:20.840-04:00FINALLY!!! Thank God! You were acting like a loser...FINALLY!!! Thank God! You were acting like a loser and you're not. STOP. IT.<br /><br />And, no, don't go out and hook up with random people. That's 1) dangerous (for your health) 2) pathetic 3) just another way of filling a void.<br /><br />Do what you keep telling yourself you're going to do (but never really act on it) and focus on you. Finish your 50 dates and then work it out for you, not for some man.<br /><br />:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-84166338981493302672010-04-16T18:08:42.087-04:002010-04-16T18:08:42.087-04:00Do the exact opposite of your gut. LOL, that'...Do the exact opposite of your gut. LOL, that's kind of funny... and sad. But I'm glad you're learning.<br /><br />I know you don't need any more advice, but you've been on 30 something dates and they all seem to go the same way--he's too short, he doesn't pay, too this, too that, not hot, not successful. Maybe you should give up for a while and just go out and have a lot of sex. I'm serious, you're on this roll, and it's a bad one. Give up for a while and start going to bars and hooking up with people. Online dating is not working for you... there is something wrong here, because I refuse to believe it's all the guy's faults that you haven't clicked with anyone yet.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9097566840034375289.post-9857811522778835902010-04-16T16:09:37.066-04:002010-04-16T16:09:37.066-04:00Good for you! Wow, you deserve SO much better tha...Good for you! Wow, you deserve SO much better than that guy! For realz!<br /><br />(your friend in Europe's response was funny, and the perfect advice you needed)<br /><br />Stay strong, your man is out there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com